My better half and I were discussing the importance of a Woman’s worth. It is amazing that oftentimes, as humans we forget to take care and nurture our own seed in the process of grooming someone elses garden; this is especially the case with females. Yes ladies it is almost as crucial as breathing, LOVE YOUR SELF. You are by far worth that and more; allow your life to manifest through YOUR self-worth and serving Allah/God. Do NOT cheapen yourself from that crown that has been and WILL BE FOREVER within you. I get it, women are nurturers, masha’Allah it is our gift to the world but when it has no balance to our purpose, it can and does become a curse. When your "gift" becomes more valuable than the person giving it (i.e. YOU) NO human mind could possibly comprehend your worth. Loving someone is GLORIOUS and being open completely and without doubt is magical BUT when it affects your happiness. STOP! THINK! REGROUP WITH YOU in mind and start over…like I said we must be able to GIVE, GIVE, GIVE, GIVE AND GIVE ONCE MORE but AT LEAST two of those gives should be towards your lord; the other two are split between yourself and your mate while the last should be given to your family/the world. When we lose sight of the purpose of giving, which is to please Allah (swt) so you will find that generosity in paradise waiting for you BOTH, we become EXCESSIVE; a POISON that is disruptive to that loving growth we originally set out to nurture. Now there are some out there who will NEVER understand what we possess. This is because they don't see their own worth. Why hold onto someone who doesn't see you as priceless??? Move on. After all you're looking for ONE PERSON...ONE out of BILLIONS so its essential you find someone who compliments your own worth the way you, yourself have determined the value. Everything hangs off balance; allow him to understand that you LOVE yourself past your flaws and all so he may find a way to LOVE you better and vice versa…as my best friend put it..."No man will possibly see you as his queen if you treat yourself like his servant"
Love, Faith & Worth
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MashaAllah!!! You guys are too awesome! I have been having conversations similar to this for the past few weeks with my friends around campus. I see so many young girls and young women who seemingly do not value themselves by the behavior that they display. SubhanAllah it is true if you love yourself and know your worth, others have no choice but to see your light as well. Though, knowing your worth is not to be confused with arrogance. A woman and man who knows, acknowledges, and accepts his/her worth does not need to vocally scream it out. A person's actions and how they carry themselves scream worthiness. In all of this it is important to realize also that a person can only treat you as bad as you allow them to. This is a lesson I had to learn myself. I stand behind this campaign 100%!!
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Masha'Allah, what can I say? By Allah you render me speechless with your words. I look forward to each and every one of your writings and you never let me down. They are all superb, no one is better than the last yet I'm unable to supress my excitement for the next. You have a deep understanding of extremely relevant subjects and you're able to denote the simplicities of life and shine this light on each and every person who is brave enough to read on. Its vital that we should comprehend our worth and you have explicitly stated this in a nutshell.
ReplyDeleteI fully support your campaign, as long as you don't stop writing!
Endless love <3
Masha'Allah love the work of you two entwined. This is superb and eloquently written. Love the concept of the 'know your worth campaign'. Keep it up guyssss, im feeeling the love bouncing off you twooo!
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Rahma.